I wanted to write to you and let you know that you are not alone in this world. I was talking to a friend and client of mine yesterday about friendships and what happens sometimes when you “wake up”.
If you are going through an awakening (and, if you’re on my email list, I would say you are even if you don’t know it yet) sometimes it can be rough. Life changes in almost every sense. The important is no longer important, your values and beliefs will change, you might take up new hobbies and you may even change friendships.
Let’s talk about that for a minute.
The conversation I had yesterday was around my friend losing a friendship that she valued dearly. Not only that, this friend dumped her, without any explanation or conversation about what went on. My friend was confused, upset and just could not stop thinking about it.I explained to her what happened to me just a couple of years ago. My friend of 26 years did a similar thing and unfortunately, I lost all related friend in the divorce. I had left to travel overseas for awhile and for whatever reason (I still don’t know) she stopped speaking to me.Now, at the time, the story that I told myself was, I can’t be me, or people leave, so I started to hide the real me. I’m fucking funny but I noticed myself hiding my humor, I became a bit of a hermit, I didn’t interact with others as much, for risk of getting hurt again.
It took me awhile to get my head around it and then I remembered my learnings about the Law of Attraction and vibration which has beautifully led me to where I am now. Anyhoo, when we became friends, we were vibrating at a certain level, like attracting like. As the years went on, we were both into self-development and so we grew together, for a while.
I started waking up massively in 2016, like I was 80% there and then 2016 happened and BOOM!
Without her growth, her growing and expanding at the same rate, there was no fucking way we would stay friends. I love her, dearly, but it’s simply the laws of the Universe.
You may have heard the term, your vibe attracts your tribe and it couldn’t be truer.
So what do you do knowing this?
- Understanding why was a big closure moment for me. Hopefully for you too.We have people come into our lives for a reason, a season and a lifetime.Send them love. Let them go. You maintaining a high vibration is far too important for it to be conditional on receiving love from someone who can’t take the time out to have a conversation with you.
- Think about what story you made up when this happened. What did you tell yourself? Can you let go of that? If not, get a coach. Nuke that in the bud right now. I used NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) and other modalities to change this pattern in only a few sessions.
- You will make new friends! And what has gone is always replaced with something better.
- Danielle Laporte has just released a new program (below) which would be perfect for you right now.
You got me. I love you x
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